My Love Life & Such
I’ve never really talked about my love life here. Well, this blog is supposed to be my every day life & how I deal (or not) with issues. So here it goes.
If you know me, you’ll probably know that I’m attached & have been for 2½ years. All this time Jeff & I have our fair share of major fights & minor tiffs. At the end of the day, (actually, it’s within mins) we have no problem with reconciliation. We’re fiercely attached to each other. Turning our back against each other is just too unbearable. I guess that’s why we’re so right for each other.
Few months ago in Sept, we decided on a bridal studio & placed a deposit. Since then, we had lots of discussions & more arguments as to when we’re tying the knot. Jeff’s very worried that his parents will think that we’re not financially stable yet. We’re not. But I keep telling him that you should never wait till you’re able to start planning. Starting a home from sketch is & can be a growing process for us. We both agreed that it’s a bliss to slowly build our way up. Kinda like playing The Sims. You start off with a crappy job, with crappy pay & buy crappy furniture. Once the money starts coming in, you sell away the old & get new & better items. That’s where the satisfaction lies.
We’re seriously thinking of getting our solemnization done this year on our 3rd year anniversary which is less than ½ a year away. The problem is how to break the news to his parents. The traditional will have to wait till we have enough $. Since we’ve been thinking about starting out, we’ve also been thinking about getting what we’ve always wanted but never had the chance to own. A pet dog. Hence the research I’ve been doing for the past few days.
Jeff likes bulldog becoz it’s ugly. I like mini schnauzer. I told him I can compromise by getting a pug. (I truly like it. Besides, bulldogs are not allowed in HDBs.) He told me it’s alright & I can get my mini schnauzer. Now I’m not so sure. So many dogs were & are continuing to be abandoned by people. I hated what is happening to these poor little creatures. I’ve read so many accounts of abuse, hit & run or simply tossing the dogs into the bushes for them to die. Jeff totally supports the idea of adopting & giving 1 of many to have a 2nd chance at life.
My heart went out to a dog name Hope. She was found abandoned & has only 3 legs. But I can’t bring her home becoz my mom doesn’t like the mess. I don’t have a house of my own yet. I can only pray that Hope will go to a nice family who will treat her well. I couldn’t sleep last night thinking about her. Then, in today’s Straits Times, I saw my ideal flat in the ad for selling! We’ve been looking out for months but nothing came up at that specific block. I’ve contacted the agent & I really hope that we can clinch it.
I’ve always believed that no matter how bad the situation is, things will eventually work themselves out even though I may be depressed about it for a while. Is this a sign? Am I meant to save Hope? I just wish that she has not been put to sleep. I wish that I’ll be in time.
If you know me, you’ll probably know that I’m attached & have been for 2½ years. All this time Jeff & I have our fair share of major fights & minor tiffs. At the end of the day, (actually, it’s within mins) we have no problem with reconciliation. We’re fiercely attached to each other. Turning our back against each other is just too unbearable. I guess that’s why we’re so right for each other.
Few months ago in Sept, we decided on a bridal studio & placed a deposit. Since then, we had lots of discussions & more arguments as to when we’re tying the knot. Jeff’s very worried that his parents will think that we’re not financially stable yet. We’re not. But I keep telling him that you should never wait till you’re able to start planning. Starting a home from sketch is & can be a growing process for us. We both agreed that it’s a bliss to slowly build our way up. Kinda like playing The Sims. You start off with a crappy job, with crappy pay & buy crappy furniture. Once the money starts coming in, you sell away the old & get new & better items. That’s where the satisfaction lies.
We’re seriously thinking of getting our solemnization done this year on our 3rd year anniversary which is less than ½ a year away. The problem is how to break the news to his parents. The traditional will have to wait till we have enough $. Since we’ve been thinking about starting out, we’ve also been thinking about getting what we’ve always wanted but never had the chance to own. A pet dog. Hence the research I’ve been doing for the past few days.
Jeff likes bulldog becoz it’s ugly. I like mini schnauzer. I told him I can compromise by getting a pug. (I truly like it. Besides, bulldogs are not allowed in HDBs.) He told me it’s alright & I can get my mini schnauzer. Now I’m not so sure. So many dogs were & are continuing to be abandoned by people. I hated what is happening to these poor little creatures. I’ve read so many accounts of abuse, hit & run or simply tossing the dogs into the bushes for them to die. Jeff totally supports the idea of adopting & giving 1 of many to have a 2nd chance at life.
My heart went out to a dog name Hope. She was found abandoned & has only 3 legs. But I can’t bring her home becoz my mom doesn’t like the mess. I don’t have a house of my own yet. I can only pray that Hope will go to a nice family who will treat her well. I couldn’t sleep last night thinking about her. Then, in today’s Straits Times, I saw my ideal flat in the ad for selling! We’ve been looking out for months but nothing came up at that specific block. I’ve contacted the agent & I really hope that we can clinch it.
I’ve always believed that no matter how bad the situation is, things will eventually work themselves out even though I may be depressed about it for a while. Is this a sign? Am I meant to save Hope? I just wish that she has not been put to sleep. I wish that I’ll be in time.
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