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Oh well. Maybe I'm just being a glutton for punishment. I just had to go read her blog again. I just had to go make myself miserable again.
Jeff left a comment in his sis's blog as anonymous. He said that she should try to get to know her brother (Jeff) & his gf (Me). That she shouldn't just pass judgment when she doesn't even understand what kind of a person her brother's gf is.
To which, she replied: The girl is the least of my concern. I've no comments and considerations for her. In neither way she is related to me.
OMG... This is like so cold, so unfeeling. To think I actually held respect for her in the past. But I guess congrats to her. She just lost whatever respect I have for her. FOREVER.
posted by Rookie Jo at 11:08 PM
3 Comments:
goodness!! yr future sil said such thing?? so horrible of her....or rather how can she said comments like tat?? so all the offerings to help u on the buffet and stuff becoming very fake...MG!! cant believe such pple still exists mann...
however is good that u go and read her blog...at least u can know what thinking inside of her and family...i presumed she knows u will be reading her blog...and there she purposely dare to say until like that...
one grain of rice eat by many pple...this really explains such and such pple ard us...juz waiting for us to discover...
whatever, if both of u relation still growing strong...make it more stronger and hard to break...they are only external sources...so long both you not affected! once marriage you both live by yr own...how much they can interfer?? respecting them as our in-laws is still the dil duty...
cheer up...:)
I'm shocked myself too. Hai... I'm really disappointed. I hope her son doesn't take after her when he grows up.
I asked Jeff to go talk to his mom & find out if this is how she feels too. 1 person, I still can take it. But if even his mom secretly feels this way...
even if jeff mother gotta feel this way....what you gg to do? or what can u do?? forget the relationship with jeff?? then it will make them think that they r right!! whatever obstacles that come along...take it and challenge it...afterall it is jeff u r marrying not the family...it is jeff that u will be living for yr whole marriage life not them...whatever they wanna do..u can't change...perhaps one day one day...they will juz change their attitude twd you....miracle juz happen....
it takes time to change a person character...hence it also takes time for a person to change their attitude twd another person...
cheers :)
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